My name is Lancia (pronounced Lawn-see-uh). I am a well-married wife, a mother of seven, and a nana of seven. I am the founder and Executive Director of Cultivating and The Cultivating Project. I write most often about brilliant people doing brilliantly good things, and about the restorative work of a cultivated life.
By trade I am a photographer who has been shooting professionally for better than 39 years. I can say, however, that I am a writer by deepest inclinations. I loved letters and words from before I could use them just as I danced before I could walk. My first mother taught me to read at three & a half, and reading became my saving grace as a child growing up in traumatic circumstances. From my first encounter with each of them, I have held an abiding interest in the works and lives of C.S. Lewis, J.R.R. Tolkien, and George MacDonald. Most especially Lewis.
Always of an entrepreneurial bent, my “day-job” is the executive management of a thriving environmental consulting and construction firm in northern Colorado. But my deep roots have always been planted in serving the body of Christ directly, in tending communities, and in nurturing the individuals who make them up.
One of the defining elements of my life is that I have been in recovery from drug-addiction and alcoholism for 40 years. Closely tied to that is the fact that I have lived with and managed chronic depression for most my life. Why tell you that in the middle of an introductory description of me when it would be so much easier and possibly safer to leave that out? One reason is that part of my recovery requires a certain measure of transparency. Disclosure. That part is for me. The other reason though is for you, and it carries the greater weight of motivation for me. You need to know if I am a reliable voice to listen to and whether I have any understanding of the landscape you are traveling and overcoming. It is important for your sake that you know we share common ground in our human experience – and that while I write about things that are beautiful, true and good, it isn’t just “sweetness and light”.
I don’t live in a safely protected ivory tower, any more than you do, and I don’t have pat or tidy answers.
Like you, I have a living faith being worked out in my own life daily.
I deliberately cultivate what is good, true and beautiful, not in denial of suffering, but it in response to it.
I imagine that you are too, and that is why you have found your way here to Cultivating.
The shadowed experiences and conditions that have been most difficult for me to come to terms with – mixed thoroughly with all the sweetness and joy in my life – are fundamental elements of redemption for me. These very conditions and the experiences that caused them are the reaping field in me for Christ; the bitter, broken places made whole and sweet, clean and new, for His Glory. Out of them He is making something new – beauty from ashes.
It is my prayer that you will resonate with what you find here at Cultivating. May this be a place of shelter for your spirit, encouragement for your daily living, and good company for the journey we share.
You are welcome at this table, friend.
First and always I am a lover of the Triune God.
The foundation of my being and my world-view is belief in the Triune God who is the Eternal I AM, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. I believe that Jesus Christ is the only Begotten Son of God, that there is no salvation apart from Him – He is the Way, the Truth and the Life. There is no other way to God the Father but through the Son. I believe that He is the Light that has come into this world, that He has overcome the darkness and the darkness has not overtaken the Light. I believe that Goodness overcomes evil and that when this world ends, it will end in Day, not night. I believe that God Almighty is the Author and Origin of Goodness, Truth, and Beauty and that those three transcendent values represent His experiential presence in this world and a continual stream of His Omnipotent nearness.
I believe in the imminent return of Jesus Christ as King and Righteous Ruler of this world and that until He returns the Holy Spirit is with us to teach us all things, to comfort and to console. I believe that until His return, it is the calling of every believer to “occupy the land” as His representatives –to live in this world representing God with faithful presence, thankfulness, good cheer, kindness, courage, wisdom and love; in short, to cultivate goodness, truth, and beauty!
When I write about Goodness, Truth and Beauty I am in effect writing about the “vocabulary” God uses to make His presence known to us in intimate and recognisable ways. Those three values have been examined, contemplated, reviewed, debated, and written about for centuries. What I am exploring here and endeavoring to live out is not new.
These are ancient values being expressed in our own times according to the understanding and needs of our age. They are not a substitute for saying that God is God. Rather they are universal values that can be recognised by all people as transcendent elements to be desired and preserved regardless of their religious background or culture. Goodness, Truth, and Beauty are universally present and form our common ground for connecting over the matters of eternal significance. They are a constant reflection of God’s nature and His abiding company with us in this world.
“I believe in one God the Father, the Almighty, creator of heaven and earth,
and of all that is, seen and unseen.
“I believe in one Lord, Jesus Christ, the only Son of God,
eternally begotten of the Father, God from God, Light from Light,
true God from true God, begotten, not made, of one being with the Father.
Through Him all things were made.
For us men and for our salvation He came down from heaven;
by the power of the Holy Spirit He became incarnate from the Virgin Mary, and was made man.
For our sake He was crucified under Pontius Pilate; He suffered death and was buried.
On the third day He rose again in accordance with the Scriptures;
He ascended into heaven and is seated at the right hand of the Father.
He will come again in glory to judge the living and the dead,
and His kingdom will have no end.
“I believe in one Holy Spirit, the Lord, the giver of life,
who proceeds from the Father and the Son.
With the Father and the Son He is worshipped and glorified.
He has spoken through the Prophets.
“I believe in one, holy, catholic* and apostolic Church.
I acknowledge one baptism for the forgiveness of sins.
I look for the resurrection of the dead,
and the life of the world to come. Amen.”
* catholic (with a small c) means “universal” or “worldwide.”
The word cultivate has particular significance and beauty to me. It not only represents the deep love that I hold for gardening but also in a single word it describes the deepest value of how I choose to live: affirming, nurturing and defending what is Good, True and Beautiful.
To cultivate with deliberate intention is an act of choice, courage and creative hope. It is an act of love and a step of faith. By definition it means to break up hard ground, to prepare for planting, to nurture. By practice it means to choose what I focus on, what I invest my life, energy, heart and strength in, and what I then to pass on to others. It also means guarding against those elements that threaten what I have chosen to nurture.
I cultivate as an offering of worship to our Creator and obedience to Him as my God and King. An essential tenet of what I believe is that good will always overcome evil — even when we do not live to see that in this world, that Light overcomes the darkness and the darkness will NEVER put it out, that Beauty triumphs over destruction, that He Who is Life has prevailed over death, and that this great Story we are living in has the very best of endings.
I am inspired by Philippians 4.8 “For the rest, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is worthy of reverence and is honorable and seemly, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely and lovable, whatever is kind and winsome and gracious, if there is any virtue and excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think on and weigh and take account of these things [fix your minds on them].” (Amplified Version).
And grounded on Deuteronomy 30.19 – “I call heaven and earth to witness this day against you that I have set before you life and death, the blessings and the curses; therefore choose life, that you and your descendants may live ….”
Life is good. Cultivate it!